Lust as Touch/ Lust as Puppy/ Lust as Exploration/ Lust as Fun

Week Two - - Day Two

Lust as Curiosity and Play

The Joys of Two Bodies instead of One

(It’s not so serious, this sex/ sensuality thing)

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Think of a puppy, rolling in the mud.

It’s joy.

It’s bliss.

The pure delight of life touching the sensuous joy of life.

That’s what you want your touch life to be like.

It that leads to great sex, or wonderful sex, or fantastic sex, fine.

If it stick around in the glory of two bodies that get to touch (think of a mother or a father and their young baby/ child), so be it.

THIS IS ABOUT LIFE.

WELL LIVED.

FULLY LIVED.

HAPPILY LIVED.



What if “happy ever after” meant this now and the next and the next?

Including THIS NOW, right now.

Including this now, RIGHT NOW.

Including this NOW, right NOW.

INCLUDING this now, right now.

And so on.



Are you smiling?

If not, go ahead. Give it a try.



Happiness #5:

Smile

Breathe deeply

Sense your feet

Walk around and look at things 

And touch some of them

Do this with

Curiosity and

Joy



Good.

Life is meant to be touched.

And while you’re at it, get up again and wander, this time touching things with….



Happiness #6: Your feet

Smile

Breathe deeply

Wander around wherever you are

With shoes and socks off

Touch and feel things with your feet

Enjoy



This is the world of children

This is our world at the beach

This is our world in bed

WE FINALLY GET OUR SOCKS AND SHOES OFF



Of course, there’s no rule against shoes and socks off in the house, and many houses do have a rule of shoes off.

This is a good rule.

Consider making your house and shoe free house.

You’ll like it.



So let’s get back to our partners.

We last had a grand time explore their feet and their hands with our hands. Let’s expand this in a way that’s a little silly, and ultimately, profound.

Or, could be profound.

I’ve found.

But what will you find?

We’ll see/ feel/ notice/ realize.



Touching and Relationship Exercise #3:

Touch your partner’s hand with your feet and your hands

For three or four minutes

It’s going to be awkward

Oh, well

You’ll both feel sensations that may well be new

This sounds like a great way to expand a relationship to me

Rub

Pat

Squeeze 

With hands and feet

Have fun

Be silly

Be inquisitive 

What will happen?



This is life.

This is a book for those who want a more full and amazing life.

One way is to clear away your thinking by not believing in it.

Another is to be present and smile and breathe so you are in the midst of your own life as you are living it.

The third is this:

Touch more.

Explore more ways to touch.

As always: be present.

Smile.

Notice.

Take it in.



Hint: going slower almost always makes things more vivid.

Find out in that’s true for you.

Enjoy.